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what gorgeous, thoughtful writing here. Nicely done.

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Thank you โ˜บ๏ธโ˜บ๏ธ

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Gosh I love this!! It speaks to me in so many levels too! Pls donโ€™t be surprised if I take screenshots of my favorite lines from here. Iโ€™d read it again and share my favorite parts! (not a creep, just really a passionate reader ๐Ÿคฃ)

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This gives me idea to share my bucket list too and the crossing out of whatโ€™s been done looks exciting for me! I think this would help me get reminded of my things-I-really-want-to-do and will motivate me to finally work on the list.

Iโ€™m in love with this line โ€œIt would be easy to take a break from writingโ€”I could almost too quickly, rationalize removing it from my plate. What Iโ€™m trying to do instead, though, is see this as a way to show up for myself.โ€

This really hits home to me because I havenโ€™t seen it that way. I love typing down every thought in my head as much as I can but I never thought that yes, itโ€™s actually a way to show up for myself. Thanks for articulating that! It gives me much more motivation to continue writing and hone it!

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And this lineโ€” โ€œthe easiest thing to do as a mom is to disappearโ€”into your children, into the mental load, into the chores, into the impossible โ€œbalanceโ€ of it all. In the absence of free time, Iโ€™ve learned how much I need space to be with my thoughts and to process my experiencesโ€

I never thought Iโ€™d lose so much free time when I become a mom. But this is my reality now, and most of the time I found myself longing for that break to have a space to ponder on my thoughts and write down the experience. Argh, thanks for showing up for yourself- it radiates even to a normal mom like me!

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It is UNREAL how little free time we have as moms. I'm so glad my thoughts resonated with you and I'm so thankful that you shared your experiences. :)

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So beautiful, Courtney. I'm cheering you on for choosing to document this part of your life, despite the different challenges life brings. It's truly an inspiration to read โ™ฅ๏ธ

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โ™กโ™กโ™ก Back at you! Thank you for the kind words ๐Ÿ˜Œ

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Great article, Courtney. Itโ€™s good to see you're making good progress on the summer bucket list ๐Ÿ‘ following the same, I need to finish 8 hrs at work, and then I'm free for eight days; I'll head to the beach ๐Ÿ˜Š more rest was my lead on the bucket list ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Enjoy! โ˜บ๏ธ ๐Ÿ–๏ธ

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Ok I not only loved this, but needed it it today. You've inspired me to stop f*cking around with my latest post, and just send it, and move on. Not everything needs to be a shining version of perfection. And I love your list. Add some fun sh*t in there for you too, though! Here's a tip: my kids love 'movie night', which is where I drag pillows and cushions onto the floor, switch on the Christmas lights above the fireplace that I have never taken down, close the curtains and let them choose a movie for the three of us. They get hot chocolate and marshmallows, and depending on the time of day, I join them, or have a glass of wine. Then we just relax, and it's a few less hours to spend rushing around.

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I love this comment, this tip, and your publication! By your article titles alone it was an immediate subscription for me. Cannot wait to read more ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿปโ˜บ๏ธ

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Thank you so much!! Same - looking forward to your posts โ™ฅ๏ธ

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I love that you carve out this time for you!! To write, reflect, and create. Cheering for you, Friend ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–

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Thanks Catherine! Same to you ๐Ÿค

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Frozen chocolate orange slices sound amazing!!

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I agree! I think this will be my next thing ๐Ÿซ ๐ŸŠ

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